Jamie's Real Discipline Session with Miss Iceni

Jamie awaits his 12 cane strokes on the bare as part of his session

** This is the clip description I have just written for a series of films I cam currently editing and will upload soon: ‘Jamie’s real discipline session with Miss Iceni’. Jamie is a submissive and spanking model I have worked with several times. This time, rather than the usual scenario-setting and build-up/scolding/drama, I wanted to show you something completely different, something real and sincere, as you will find out by reading the full description. It is fairly wordy because I have been told by Clip4Sale for example, during a mentoring session regarding my clips store, than the more verbose and descriptive the better, as this improves SEO (Search Engine Optimisation) and makes it easier for people to find the film. As I had written a longer than usual clip description, I decided to include it here as a blog piece. I hope you find it interesting and learn something either about yourself about me, or the work that I do. **

Have you ever wondered what it's like to come and see me for a discipline session? Maybe you are new to this- how does it work? What happens when you book to go and visit someone like Miss Iceni for a spanking/a good dose of discipline, either domestic or school role play?  Maybe you have visited other people and are curios about how I work. I offer many different types of sessions, but I wanted to represent here a fairly standard session where we explore spanking, the leather strap, the cane, and finish with an OTK hair brush spanking. I filmed this session with Jamie from start to finish as if it were a usual booking. I have made many spanking films with role playing/scenarios/props and characters. In this instance I wanted to make something realistic and authentic, to move away from the staged to the more real. It has always been my aim to capture genuine D/s discipline dynamics in my films, so this is a move back to the natural and ‘unfiltered’. In this age where we are at sea, adrift in a great wash of Ai-generated fantasies, filled with automatons created by brief prompts, and unreal pornified characters, created by consumers, not by content creators, I wanted to film something more real and genuine. I wanted to represent what I actually do, not the ‘acting’ or ‘filming’ side of my work, which tends to be more performative. I wanted to depict myself what genuine discipline looks like. If you want to know what it feels like, you will need to come and see me in person, of course. I find that in a scripted/very carefully pre-planned scene, with people who don’t know each other, or have not filmed together before, you miss moments like those of genuine eye-contact or connection. I have worked with

First, we start with a brief discussion about his limits/level of experience/fantasies. I will have, at this point, sent him some precession questions during the booking process, so we would usually sit and have a brief chat to go over details before we start. It is very much part of the Miss Iceni brand that I believe communication is key to good discipline. We discuss things like marks, level of intensity, implements, whether we need a role play (not always, though they can be fun), and whether he needs a safe word. I run through some details about what he can expect.

Then we start with an OTK hand spanking, the old classic all spankees and spankers tend to have a taste for. Jamie is given a good, real hand spanking over my knee. Then he is made to kneel on he sofa and wait in a version of ‘corner time’. I like to give people breaks in between their spankings so they can connect to the experience, catch their breath, and to allow their skin to be able to take more. A slow and steady build up often works wonders for a long spanking, and an hour is quite a long time to be at my mercy! This anticipation also allows tension to grow and for the right headspace to be allowed to grow.

Next, it’s time for Jamie to experience the leather strap, which he takes bent over while standing in front of the sofa. He takes his strokes well, and remembers to follow instructions. Afterwards, I make him kneel in front of me and thank me for his thrashing.

Following the thick leather strap, Jamie is going to take the cane. He takes 12 strokes, in 2 sets of 6. I make him bend over and clasp his knees/shins, in front of a tall mirror, which occasionally catches his expression and the nervous rubbing of his hands against his legs as he awaits the next stroke.

I have filmed this scene, and all scenes, from 2 camera angles, one of them a very interesting overhead view which is kind of unusual in spanking films. This was achieved with the use of a railing up on the mezzanine floor, and I used a ‘gorilla grip’ tripod to wrap around the railing and position the camera as if looking down. I fins interesting angles always make for a good film. My latest aim is also to simplify the filming of my clips, to film from maximum 2 angles, as I make all my films myself. Fancy lighting and camerawork would be great too but I am a fan of stripped-back visuals and straight-forward, well-framed angles for filming. As long as you can get the whole image with head/feet and the swing of the implement, then you do not necessarily need close-ups and tricky camerawork. I like the viewer to feel like a voyeur- as if the scene has begun and you have perhaps crept up and peered round the door, hearing strange spanking sounds and the swishing of a cane, perhaps. Drawn by the sound, you hang back and watch from a safe distance, wondering why you are so intrigued and stimulated by watching me thrash a big, powerful male who is putty in my hands. No doubt you wish it was you, or you imagine yourself fin his shoes, on the receiving end of my relentless, firm smacks, strokes and wallops.

Finally, Jamie is taken up stairs to the bedroom for his hair brush spanking. I sit on the corner of the bed and put him over my knee, pulling down his pants. Then he is subjected to a long, fairly hard, and sustained hair brush spanking. He really struggles here, I remtember when filming this I wool him we would film for 7-10 mins of actual spanking. He told me aferwards that he pushed himself, specially during the final part of the spanking, and was wishing the time would come to an end, even as I was remonstrating with him that a real spanking only takes place when you start to wish it was over. When you think you’ve had enough, but n fact you can take more. Quite a lot ore, if you allow yourself to be led and fully commit to this journey.

After his spanking, Jamie is allowed some after-care. Not everybody needs this but I wanted to depict this caring side of  some of Miss Iceni’s sessions, after the spanking has finished. I give him a bottom rub and some relaxing time over my knee. Then I allow him to kneel before me and thank me, and to rest his head in my lap. I find this part of spanking very intimate and special, when the energy is right. the spankee has taken his/her thrashing, has learned their lesson, has maybe pushed themself further than before, or surprised themself with where the experience took them,. Not every spanking has to be harder or more severe than the last, or in competition with what other people take on film, and every day the body, mind and emotions change, so each experience is different. But I find after the adrenaline and intensity if a long discipline session, a little calm and caring is good for many people. Limp, over my knee, they feel safe, forgiven, cared for and soothed. I may be strict, and sometimes mean, but Miss Iceni is always fair, and I always do this for your own good. It is a gift to be able to give you the time and space to explore your innermost needs and desires, and to feel safe and supported in that journey. This is why I love this job, this type of alchemy that sees people walk out of the door as if walking on air. De-stressed, understood, encouraged, challenged, chastised, but ultimately forgiven. andndAnd this is what I wanted to show you in this series of films- the real, the unfiltered, the truly-felt, the exchange of power that takes place during an F/M spanking scene. But a real one, not a posed and scripted one.